I spoke last week about the importance of developing a culture of honour and how a culture of honour enables the proper stewardship of God's purposes. We live in a culture that doesn't understand honour and is actually based on dishonour but we must live counter-culturally to that, we must live with a Kingdom culture. Honour is a really big deal to God but not because He is looking for affirmation, but because of what the giving of honour does in, and through, our lives.
We learn from Exodus 20:12 that the giving of honour releases life and longevity in God's purposes, hence its necessity in stewarding what God is doing, AND we also learn that it is the person who gives the honour that actually receives the greatest blessing (this one is hard for us to accept in a culture that esteems the person receiving honour and almost overlooks the ones giving the honour). This Kingdom concept is backed up again in 1 Peter 3:7 when husbands are instructed to honour their wives so that THEIR PRAYERS will not be hindered. Once again, it is the person giving the honour that benefits the most in this 'transaction'.
Certainly the person who receives honour is blessed and encouraged, but we would all do well to remember where the greatest blessing lies...in the giving of honour.
I'm reading through Acts in my devotions right now and I came across a verse that challenged, and enlarged, my understanding of what a culture of honour looks like. It is easy to think it looks like constant encouragement, affirmation and appreciation of people, but that is actually only a small piece of the culture of honour.
In Acts 5:41 the apostles had just gotten flogged for preaching about Jesus and their reaction is incredible. It says that they counted it an honour to suffer for the sake of Jesus. Now that is an aspect of the culture of honour that I was not expecting to see. A culture of Kingdom honour can't be limited simply to the affirmation and encouragement we give one another, although it must contain these elements. A culture of honour is also made up of people being overwhelming grateful to Jesus for His saving grace in their lives and His willingness to use us to demonstrate His love to the world, regardless of the worlds response to us.
As I was thinking about this passage another passage came to mind that fits nicely with this one. In Proverbs 19:11 we are told that it is a persons honour to overlook an offense. This is another aspect of a culture of honour that might easily be overlooked, but is absolutely necessary. A culture of honour is a culture where people are not defensive or offended, and realize the greatest reward is found in releasing an offense instead of holding it.
So I'll leave it with this. Based on Acts 5:41 and Proverbs 19:11 how are you doing at developing a culture of honour? ( I know I've got work to do.)
Recent Comments